"Hi Margaret! I came to see you after I was laid off in April. I knew that I was facing the perfect opportunity to really focus my energy where my passions are but was scared to let myself do it. You, of course, knew this before I did! You asked me "What are you so afraid of?" the question cut to my core. I almost started crying. I don't know what I was so afraid of but it was true that I was afraid and my fear was holding me back.
  Then you asked about the area that I really didn't want to talk about, my relationship. My partner and I had been going through rough times for several years and I couldn't see any blue skies. I was about to leave him, if he didn't leave me first. We were both miserable and taking it out on each other. You turned over the cards and looked me and said "You're mothering an adult." I couldn't do anything but nod, because again you hit the nail right on the head and was holding back tears. You told me about the 50/50 rule (I think that's what you called it). That his problems were his and mine were mine and the little song you taught me (his, his, his, mine, mine, mine) has helped me through many distressing times since!
  My partner and I still argue sometimes but I have definitely been able to back of and let him take care of his own problems. The amazing transformation that has happened has saved our relationship! I now respect him as an adult and he has been able to step up and take control of his half of our lives and company! Our business has been flourishing and we have a few very exciting project underway including on that is much bigger than could have hoped this soon! Thanks again! Your wisdom is invaluable! â âA.Y.
âI had a mini reading from you on the radio. It was an exhilarating experience. You had me pin-pointed exactly. You told me it would be around 6 months or so before I would be ready to date and I should just focus on myself and college. And so I did and around 6 months later I was getting a few guys asking me out and I was actually ready to date again. It was a great experience, and I need to come in again and see what the future holds! Thanks Margaret Ruth.â - S.H.
âDear MR~I was in to see you last week. IT was so enlightening. You told me things that I could DO, not just identify a problem, and that is more than most therapists can do!â -J.V.
  âDear MR; I just wanted to thank you for an interesting reading. You exceeded all of my expectations in that you were kind, frank and keenly insightful. I also thought you might like to hear how accurate your reading of my love life was. I was surprised and thought you were completely off base when you asked me if my boyfriend was married or had any children. You read in the cards that someone from the past was going to affect our relationship and that it also had something to do with a child. As far as anyone knew (even himself), he didn't have any children.
  But, as you predicted an old girlfriend showed up 5 days after your reading pregnant. Unalarmed by your reading at the time, you also warned me that his mother would be a problem. This was slightly apparent at the time of the reading but I had no idea why. Well, mom wants him to do the right thing and is constantly trying to keep us from even as much as speaking. She is a huge influence on him. When all of this unfolded, I was wrecked. Really sad. None the less, you not only predicted accurately, but you were extremely insightful about the emotional problems that would ensue and gave me excellent advice on how to hold it together, focus on my positive traits and ways to keep myself centered, grounded and sane. Thank you so very much! I can tell that you are truly a person who cares for others.â -J.K.
"I am really enjoying the book - I especially like the chapter summaries! I like to re-read sections and the summary makes it much easier to find what I am looking for. I also sent a copy to my sister. She and I both thought you could have been listening to our phone conversations!! Great book!" -- B.S.
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